Category Archive: Thoughts and Stories

May
22

Sexual Assault Prevention Isn’t Ruining Sex

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Tweet A recent blog post in The Atlantic entitled “Is Sex Still Sexy?” bemoans the loss of eroticism in today’s youth culture (I swear if I see another one of these “those dang youths get everything wrong” articles I’m going to flip) and concludes that current young people with their propensity for over-sharing, hooking up, and lame …

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May
16

My Ineffective Dating Strategy: Chasing Men

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Tweet I haven’t quite gotten over this high school compulsion to imagine meeting a boyfriend as meeting a guy through some shared activity, and then slowly forming a friendship, and then slowly transitioning gracefully into a “relationship,” probably by way of some heartfelt, passionate kiss in the moonlight. This is the paradigm that is played …

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May
10

Guest Post: What Salsa Taught Me about Keeping Love

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Tweet I am pleased to present the second post in our series of guests posts by Carlo the ‘S’ is Silent. If you missed the first, you can read it here. Enjoy! The last time we talked about finding love, but just because you find that partner it doesn’t mean you get to keep his or …

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May
08

Guest Post: What Salsa Taught Me about Finding Love

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Tweet In response to my post “What Running Taught Me About Love,” my friend Carlo, The ‘S’ is Silent, a longtime and accomplished salsa dancer, offered to write about his experiences with dancing. I am pleased to present “What Salsa Taught Me about Finding Love.” Keep your eyes peeled for Part Two, coming up in …

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Apr
16

My Marathon Monday

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Tweet Yesterday I was completely bummed that I had to head into Boston on Patriot’s Day to go to work in the Prudential Center. Since my company isn’t Massachusetts based, they don’t recognize the awesomeness of Patriot’s Day and so made us come to work. The commute was full not of suited businesspeople, but with …

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Apr
04

My Body is Not Public Property

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Tweet University of Rochester professor (whose book More Sex is Safer Sex I have read and enjoyed) Steven Landsburg published a thought experiment to this blog recently that has been garnering some negative attention. The post, titled “Censorship, Environment, and Steubenville” throws out three “hypothetical” situations and asks the reader to identify whether their implications should …

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Apr
03

Guest Post: Marriage Equality – Just the Tip…of the Iceberg

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Tweet Today I am thrilled to publish a guest post in response to the recent marriage equality discussions that have permeated our national dialogue. Major thanks go to Mr. Isa Abney, future world leader, for being willing to contribute to the blog. First, thank you JB, for letting me piss on your territory. Today’s topic …

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Mar
27

Changing Rape Culture in Small Steps

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Tweet Last night I went to the bathroom at a standard Boston pub and was treated to this grungy sign: My first thought was, “How old is that sign, and why don’t they replace it? It looks like someone stored it at the bottom of a backpack during a rainstorm.” My second thought was, “Wait, …

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Mar
26

Women: Drowning in a Sea of Suitors

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Tweet The other day I was perusing quora.com, I came across the following question: Why is a guy who has had multiple sexual partners called a popular guy, but a woman who does the same is called uncharitable names? Is this not hypocrisy? Ha, I thought to myself. You’re damn right it is. I scrolled down …

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Mar
22

A Glossary for Discussing Steubenville

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Tweet If you haven’t already heard about the recent guilty verdict in the case brought against two Ohio teenagers accused of raping a sixteen-year old who passed out at an underage party, then you should do a little background reading. Here is a good summary of the verdict and sentencing. Here is a New York Times …

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